<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[FAVOUR's Substack]]></title><description><![CDATA[My personal Substack]]></description><link>https://adetunjifavour87.substack.com</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!I6Ke!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2b430f67-4646-4623-b5fe-9c98bb8438f2_144x144.png</url><title>FAVOUR&apos;s Substack</title><link>https://adetunjifavour87.substack.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 01:23:47 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://adetunjifavour87.substack.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[FAVOUR]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[adetunjifavour87@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[adetunjifavour87@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[FAVOUR]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[FAVOUR]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[adetunjifavour87@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[adetunjifavour87@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[FAVOUR]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[Can You Please Listen!!!]]></title><description><![CDATA[Can you please listen?]]></description><link>https://adetunjifavour87.substack.com/p/can-you-please-listen</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://adetunjifavour87.substack.com/p/can-you-please-listen</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[FAVOUR]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 26 Feb 2026 11:01:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!I6Ke!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2b430f67-4646-4623-b5fe-9c98bb8438f2_144x144.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Can you please listen?</strong></p><p>I mean really listen. Not just wait for your turn. Not just assume you know everything.</p><p>You know the type:</p><p>&#176;Someone who jumps to conclusions before you even finish.</p><p>&#176;Someone who interrupts constantly. Yes, even mid-sentence.</p><p>&#176;Someone who doesn&#8217;t want to know the full story.</p><p>&#176;Someone who assumes their perspective is automatically right&#8230; just because they hold a title or lead a group.</p><p>&#176;Someone who refuses to be corrected.</p><p>&#176;Someone who judges based on past experiences, never thinking things could actually be different.</p><p>&#176;Someone who only wants to be heard, never giving anyone else the chance to speak.</p><p>It&#8217;s exhausting, isn&#8217;t it?</p><p>Because conversations aren&#8217;t supposed to be monologues.</p><p>They&#8217;re supposed to be exchanges.</p><p>Moments where people actually hear each other.</p><p>But some people&#8230; they just don&#8217;t.</p><p>And sometimes, you&#8217;re left wondering:</p><p>Do I argue? Step back? Walk away? Protect my peace?</p><p>I&#8217;m still figuring that out.</p><p>But one thing is clear:</p><p>Being heard is important.</p><p>And giving space for others to speak? Equally important.</p><p>So here&#8217;s all I&#8217;m asking&#8230;</p><p><strong>Just listen.</strong></p><div><hr></div><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://adetunjifavour87.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading FAVOUR's Substack! 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